Being single, I’ve adapted a few good and/or bad “single girl habits” that I don’t really see myself changing anytime soon. But let’s say a professional athlete and I started talking. Do I go all Kim Kardashian on him or stick with my stubborn dating ways?
Throughout my dating tenure (I went there), I’ve never really been the one to initially pursue someone, call or text them first, or coordinate a date. Yes, I’m aware that that’s most likely the reason for my tenure, but I’m old school.
Not to sound cliché, but I believe in southern hospitality, serendipity, and God’s plan. I don’t feel the need to take desperate measures to be with someone; if it’s meant to be, it will be. I wish more girls had this mind set because it would make things a lot less complicated, especially with this guy.
I’m not oblivious. I am SURE he is texting at least 20 other girls while he’s texting me. That doesn’t bother me, that’s what dating is… kind of. I just know that those 20 other girls ARE going Kim Kardashian on him to get his attention and that’s not me. He should already have your attention and text you.
Is this when I start to refine my dating rules? Nah… Maybe I’ll just break a few. 😉